Saw my psych doctor today. Mentally I’m quite stable and feeling less anxiety. Haven’t had problems with anxiety or irritability for months now. Physically I feel better overall. I don’t need as much sleep and I exercise a little every morning. I’ve also started stretching every morning too. That seems to help with the minor and annoying aches and pains in addition to starting my day off right.
Been socializing more than previously. Even though I sometimes went entire days without leaving my apartment early this winter, I still socialized some. Granted, socializing online and over the phone isn’t quite the same as connecting to someone in person. But I do live in a place where not many people share my interests, so I have to make do or fake like I have a serious interest in things I really don’t. I’m missing my old friends quite a bit these days. As much as I loved college, I didn’t realize just how special those days were until I was out in the adult world for several years and without much for an in person social network. Fortunately, thanks to facebook and twitter, it is easier for me to keep in contact with college and even high school friends then even fifteen years ago.
I guess that winter is now half over. It has been a long time since I spent hours on end outdoors getting lots of sunshine and fresh air. Even though this has been a long winter, it hasn’t been an unbearable one. I think it helps that I have learned to manage stress better and keep myself occupied, even if it is as mundane as playing Civilization or Skyrim for a few hours at a time.
I am also listening to audiobooks again. I’m currently almost done with The Future of Humanity by Michio Kaku. I recently started Life 3.0 by Max Tegmark. The last ones I finished were Foundation by Issac Asimov and Homo Deus by Yuval Noah Hurrari.
Continuing my self directed study too. I enjoy those ‘What If’ channels on youtube that present alternate histories of what could have happened had even slight changes happened. Interesting thought exercises to be sure. Still reading online articles though not as much as I had in previous months. I guess I’m taking some time to allow my mind to digest and process what I had previously learned. I imagine the human mind, even as powerful as it is, can only absorb so much over a given period of time before it needs a round or two of rest, recuperation and relaxation.
After a warmup over the weekend, we are back into more winter like weather. Granted I didn’t get the several feet of snow or the 50 below wind chills that much of the eastern U.S. received. It was cold enough for me and I avoided most of the cold spell. An old college friend of mine was telling me that it got almost 30 below zero in her town.
Don’t know much else I suppose. I haven’t written much the last several days simply because I didn’t have much to report as I was just riding out the cold spell and not doing much. Sometimes I also don’t write much if I’m feeling more stable. But I imagine when I am stable is exactly when I should be reflecting on the problems I had in past years. I look forward to the second half of winter. I’ll keep everyone posted.
I’m currently at my parents’ house for the next couple days. There was some maintenance work that needed to be done at my apartment. But as long as I have my computer and even average internet service, I can get everything I need done.
Been sleeping more than I would like again. Not sure what to make of that. I’ve also been more frustrated and short tempered and depressed than usual for the last couple weeks. Normally spring is my favorite time of year. So I’m not sure what’s going on. Still getting more active and being more careful about what I eat. Since I am at my parents’ house, I’ve been doing more socializing in person than my usual.
Being back in a small town for the first time in months, I had forgotten how quiet things could be. I had gotten used to hearing people in my hallways and knocking on doors for most of the day. I was also hearing ambulance and fire sirens a few times a day too as I lived on a busy street. And I forgot how dark it gets at night in rural areas. It’s almost eerily dark. Yet it was something I had taken for granted while growing up.
I plan on spending another couple days here. I really hadn’t had much peace and quiet in my life for the last few weeks. I’m ready for things to settle down again. Dare I say, I actually miss winter now. I don’t miss the cold and snow, but I do miss the quiet days and down time. I usually do pretty good writing in the winter months.
My back still flares up from time to time. The worst part is that I can’t stand for more than ten minutes without real bad back pain. I’m afraid I may have to go back to a chiropractor. I’ve already had a couple rounds of treatments since my car accident. But I’m getting more and more afraid that this back pain might be chronic even as I lose weight. It’s really sad as I used to walk thirty minutes a day, five days per week before my car accident. I know now that wreck messed me up more than I cared to admit. Hopefully as I lose more weight, the back pain can subside.
As it is, I’m taking it easy for the next couple days as things are getting straightened out back home. And I am enjoying the first true downtime in the last few weeks.
Spending a quiet, calm, and uneventful weekend at my apartment. Haven’t talked to anyone this weekend. After several days of forcing myself out of my comfort zones trying to be more social and out going, I am needing a quiet weekend to recharge and regroup. Deciding that I’m spending the weekend binging on computer games and youtube music videos. Been listening to some of the music I listened to in high school and college the last few days. I refuse to go as far as to say music was better twenty years ago because anyone will be nostalgic for what they grew up listening to in the formative years of their teens and early twenties. I imagine in early 1800s Germany there were people complaining about Beethoven. And I’m sure when the 2030s roll around my nephews’ generation will complain about what their kids listen to, watch and read.
As it is, it’s been a calming and relaxing weekend. It was overcast, kind of chilly, and raining on and off all day yesterday. We get those days quite a bit in early spring. I enjoy those type of days. Boil some coffee, find a good book, and just enjoy the day. I also do some of my better writing on days like that. Days like that are one of the reasons spring is my favorite time of year.
Looks like I made it through another winter without having any major setbacks. I did have to readjust my life some as I got to where I didn’t like being around people and preferred to sleep as much as possible. Maybe one of the reasons I stayed stable was I avoided people as much as possible. But with winter ending I suppose I no longer have the excuse of it being too cold or too much snow to leave my complex. I have to renew my lease in a few weeks. So I have to get my paper work together for that. Too bad I couldn’t do this online and submitting e-files. My rent is literally the only thing I even write checks for anymore. I imagine this dream of mine is still a few years away.
With my mental illness, one of the early warnings of problems is changes in sleep. If I go too long without consistent sleep I’ll have problems with anxiety and irritability. If I have several days of too much sleep I’ll have issues with depression and apathy.
Since I have become aware of the importance of consistent sleep, I’ll make changes to my behavior if my sleep has been erratic for more than a few days. Recently I had been getting only five to six hours a night, and not usually all in one setting. To bring my sleep back into line, I reduced caffeine and stopped drinking water two hours before bedtime. I’ll also stop reading or using my laptop in bed for awhile.
Another useful technique to get myself back into consistent sleep is breathing exercises. I’ll just deepen and slow my breathing until I am relaxed in both my body and mind. This may take only a few minutes or it may take almost an hour, depending on how tense I am.
In the past when I was sleeping too much I would run into problems with depression and apathy. I’ve found when I am physically active and more outgoing socially, these help to reenergize me. I really haven’t had problems with too much sleep since I’ve been more active physically and socially. When I wasn’t active physically or socially I’d find myself sleeping almost twelve hours a day. I’d sleep out of depression and boredom and I’d be depressed because I slept so much. It’s a vicious cycle that has to be broken.
Too little sleep and too much sleep can cause problems with mental stability. While researchers say the idea amount of sleep is seven to eight hours, this is a guideline. It varies among individuals. The best way of treating sleep, and all problems in mental health, is knowing what works for yourself. A brilliant philosopher from ancient Greece, I believe, once said “Know yourself.” Good advice for anyone.