Haven’t been doing much besides socializing online and sleeping this week. Been having odd sleep patterns too. I’ll usually go to bed shortly after midnight and sleep for a few hours. Then I’ll wake in the middle of the night and usually spend some time reading online articles or chatting with facebook friends in different time zones as when it’s middle of the night in America it’s usually middle of the day in places like Japan and China or mid morning in England.
Been quite active socially, at least online anyway. Participating mostly in science, tech, and futurism groups on facebook and leaving a few comments on tech sites on youtube. Often on youtube I’ll delete a post after several minutes because I wrote the post primarily to get it off my mind. It’s my post, so why can’t I? It’s not community property unless I allow it to be. As far as dealing with rude people online, if someone is rude to me the first time they talk to me, I block them. I don’t give second chances in this regard. I’m mentally taxed as is. Besides, the first rule of internet ettiequte is “Do Not Feed The Trolls.” I have better uses of my time and I’m just not in the mood anymore.
Made some pretty decent acquaintances in my interests groups. Too bad many of them live overseas and I’ll never get to meet them in person. I probably would be on friendly terms with many of these people if we lived in the same town or worked for the same company. Been making friends with friends of friends some too. We find common ground in similar interests and mutual friends. Once again, these friends are spread all over. But, if it’s not possible to build physical towns and settlements based around similar interests rather than single industries like farming, mining, manufacturing, finance, etc., I suppose the online friends and communities I’m part of will have to suffice.
The internet is a good thing. Social media is a good thing, certainly for people like me who have difficulty socializing in person and who live in isolated areas. Sure many people abuse these wonders of modern tech, but every tool and invention humans have ever come up with has been abused many times already. But that doesn’t make those tools evil. I am one of the few science enthusiasts I personally know where I live now and where I grew up. I didn’t have many friends growing up because I didn’t have the same interests and priorities that most of the people in my town and school. It was quite lonely at times. Occasionally I’d meet like minded people at speech meets and summer camps. I wrote to a few of these people and they wrote back during my high school years (before social media mind you). College was more bearable as there were many people with similar interests. Even at a small Christian college there were people with almost every interest imaginable. I never got that back once I graduated and moved on, at least not in the physical world.
Once I figured out how to sort through the clutter and effectively deal with online rudeness, social media became fun again. It was a dark ages cesspool for me from the years 2015 to 2017. But this year, after figuring out how to tailor the online experience to my likes and strengths and personality, it has become an important means of socializing for me. I guess one of the ironic things about my online interactions is that I have found that I have far more in common with strangers in places like Japan, England, Philippines, Canada, etc. than I do even people I have known my entire life. Interests and personalities are not evenly distributed among populations. Makes me wonder, in past generations, how many potential geniuses and difference makers our civilization lost because they had no way to channel their creativity or anyone to encourage them along. I imagine millions of people over the centuries live sad, quiet lives of desperation and despondency because they had no one to share their interests with. As lonely as I sometimes feel being a science enthusiast living in farming country in the 21st century, I can’t imagine how bad I would have gotten it living in medieval Europe, feudalist China, or the Stone Age.