2013 has come and gone. We have recently celebrated the beginning of a new year. With new years come, for many people, resolutions. I personally have never been big on setting new year resolutions as most people I know never follow through. Yet I feel different about this year, the year 2014.
The reason I feel different about setting goals, rather than calling them resolutions, is that I have been essentially drifting with whatever way the winds of my mental illness toss me ever since I left a good job over a year and a half ago. The job I had, while hardly high paying or even full time, gave me a sense of purpose and a reason for leaving the apartment every day. Leaving that job was one of the dumbest decisions I ever made. I may have not made much money from it, the job may have been simple and low prestige, but it gave me a reason for getting out and mingling with people. In fact I was doing more creative writing while I was working than when I left. Having all the time in the world free often leads to not doing anything with that time, or having a lack of direction or purpose.
I trace many of my problems with depression in 2013 directly to not having much direction in my life. While there are many people out there, mentally ill or not, who don’t need a job or volunteer work to have direction in their lives I’m not one of them. I know now I need something outside of myself to allow for some sort of structure in my day to day life. Otherwise I’ll just rot from the inside out, physically and mentally.
My first goal for 2014 is to find a part time job. I would prefer something where I could work in a small group or even alone without much interaction with the public. I never did very well at customer service jobs, fast food jobs, etc. After a dozen plus years of working with a mental illness I have figured out what kind of work I’m not good at. I would like to find a job by the end of February, but with my checkered work history this may be pressing it.
My second goal for 2014 is get to the gym more often. Sure I go once or twice a week as it is now, but I want to go more often. I always feel good after going. I don’t know why I don’t go more often.
Finally, I want to write more in 2014 than I did in 2013. I didn’t get much finished last year. I want to change that this year. I am going to change that. The only way to make any goals stick is to go after it whole heartedly and without regret.